Kenapa Akil Kurus?

This is one classic example.

Sebelum mengaji Akil pesan nak burger ra/mly ayam kat Calte/x, bila mummy pegi Caltex, burger dah habis...so memandangkan mummy nak pegi h/ero mar/ket, mummy pun beli ra/mly burger patty, so nanti dia balik mummy goring jer...


Mummy:" Akil bu/rger ra/mly kat Calt/ex tak de, tapi mummy ada beli daging burger, mummy goreng yea?

Akil: "Tak pe la mummy, akil dah kenyang".

Mummy: "Makan la something, you're too skinny".


Akil :"OK lah.. Akil nak co/co cru/nch, ada tak?"

Mummy: "C/oco crun/ch tak habis, tapi mummy ada beli Qu/ak/er Co/co Cru/nch.. (lain brand jer.. aku tengok mendenyer sama...)

Akil: "Tak mo lah". Ne/stum coklat ada?

Mummy: "Ne/stum ada, tapi tak de coklat, ada honey jer, ok ke?"

Akil: Tak pe lah.. Akil tak nak pape..


Kalau korang jadi aku.. korang stress tak?

Tapikan.....

Kalau aku gi rumah orang and  orang tanya kenapa anak ko ni kurus sgt nim... based on the scenario kat atas mestilah aku jawab "Oh dia makan memilih sangat.. bla bla bla..

Masalahnya,  sejurus selepas aku cerita betapa dia memilih makan tu..

dia dgn selambanya...makan punya banyak kat rumah orang tu.. siap bertambah tambah...


korang boleh imagine tak betapa stressnya aku!

The precious time. (The no handphone policy)

We only have 24 hours a day to complete everything in our life daily.

24 hours for big & small things,

I see that lately most of our time stolen by tiny little little thing called Wha/ts/App Groups.

For us, It may seem small.

We think by having our kids besides us and staring at our phone (for whatever reason) is okay.

 But believed me IT IS NOT.

Being there physically, doesn't means we are with them.

Being present, is more than just physical.

Being there with them require attention, listening to their stories, complaints, and help them.



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I know I cant changed much on other people, but I keep reminding myself, not to even hold my phone when my kids is around me.

Because I want them to know that they are very very important to me other than any others ( be it my class mate, my office mate, my project mate... yada yada yada..)

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Believed me,

This what/sap/p thingy aka staring in the phone while the kids is talking to you, is so EYE SOARING.

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Yup, this is post is for you babah.

And also to most Father out there who is trapped / being a victim of this social-media-sickness.

February 2016

I hate it when I did not managed to blog even 1 entry per month! argh


Failure to post something here means a 'waste'  important moments of me&mykids time.

Here are one I managed to captured during my tutoring moments with them.

Akil is having problem in writing.  He tend to write from left to right , the Arabic way.

Thus February is a writing training for him.

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I realized one factor of what make student with parents teacher an As straight scorer and that we as not-a-teacher parent did not have;


that is, we don't know what really the syllabuses, which topic should we focus on & what is the scheme of answering the questions.


How I wish there's class for parents to get the answer of those questions above.


I m willing to take leave to attend all classes for all subjects for all my kids.


Where should I throw my suggestions?

parenting 101

I just realized that I have not read any single book in parenting since God Know How Long..


Welcome 2016.  Azam tahun baru:


1. Read more Parenting book


Sekian.